This didn’t come as a surprise. Confidence is hard to maintain
when any change in our life is present. It was however interesting to see that
this was still an area of concern with such a talented group of people with
strong work backgrounds and experiences. It can be hard to recognize your own
talents during a time of frustration. Sometimes it’s easier for someone
standing on the sidelines to see what you have to offer. How can a job seeker
maintain steady confidence through this period of change?
Maintaining confidence is not always an easy thing to do.
Whether you are currently searching for a job or not, confidence ups and downs
can be present during any change, quitting smoking, exercising more, eating a
healthy and balanced diet etcetera. You are not alone in facing confidence
battles.
Your challenge
this week is to ask yourself these questions and write down your
thoughts/answers:
(If you are a job
seeker using VCCS services, relay answers that you feel comfortable in sharing
with your counsellor)
What is important to
you? List 3 things that are important to you right now.
Success means
something different to everyone. What does living a successful life really mean
to you?
When you decide that
you are making a change what are the feelings and thoughts that maintain your positive
outlook for a successful outcome?
What do you think your
best friend might say are some of your best qualities? List 5 qualities that
your best friend may say about you.
What is one small
thing that you could do today to change the way you feel and boost your
confidence?
I hope that if you are struggling to increase confidence you
really consider the above questions and talk to a counsellor at VCCS Employment
Services. Increased confidence can greatly increase the positive results in
your job search.